how to kiss a girl
- Don't ever ask a girl if you can kiss her. Especially on the first kiss. 9 out of 10 times the girl will say no. It is a pet peeve of most girls. Try to just ease your way in when your heads get closer, and closer, we will talk about this coming up and how to prepare for it.
- 2Use a nice, romantic spot. Girls will think it's amazingly romantic when the first kiss is at sunset, an empty grassy meadow under the stars, a deck on a lake at night, on the beach, on a paddle boat at a friends pond at night, at the park or a private camp fire, or on a rooftop. Usually, early dawn, sunrise, sunset, or midnight scenes can be considered lovely, but it doesn't have to be a typical romantic scene. Just make sure you are sincere in what you are doing. A couch at one of your houses will do as long as you're alone. Pop in a movie you both like and let the fun begin. The key thing is to make sure you are both comfortable and alone.
- 3If you are sitting together, make sure there is not too much space between you two. When the time comes, you will not want to have to scoot closer in order to reach her; it might feel awkward then. Go ahead and put your arm around her. Pull her close and snuggle her. Not only does this make it easier for you to lean into her for the kiss, it is a good way to break the touch barrier if it hasn't already been broken, and you can see her reaction to you. If she smiles or doesn't try to shake your arm off, she is ready.
- 4Get her in the mood. Go ahead and put your arm around her. Pull her close and snuggle her. Not only does this begin to get her in the mood for a kiss, it makes it easier for you to lean into her for the kiss, and it is a good way to break the touch barrier if it hasn't already been broken. You will know when she is in the mood if she snuggles you back, scoots closer, or flirts with you in any other way.
- 5Prepare for the kiss. Remember your five senses:
- Sight. You have to look good. This means shave if you have to. (Unless stubble or other facial hair is your usual style. Be warned, though. stubble might irritate your girlfriend during a kiss). Also, here are some tips for casual dress: Aéropostale and Abercrombie & Fitch are always good brand-name choices for shirts and jackets, although they're not necessary. Also, wear good looking pants. If it's summer, wear shorts. (Make sure they at least go down to your knees! No girl likes looking and seeing guys in short-shorts.) If it's winter, wear some jeans. (Once again, make sure they're not too short. Ankles aren't fun too look at, either).
- Smell. Make sure your breath smells good. Mints and gum helps. Brush your teeth often and use mouthwash! If you are somewhere you can, get a glass of water and take a swig before going in for the kiss. But breath isn't the only thing that needs to smell good. You should too. This doesn't necessarily mean you need to wear cologne, although that can help if it is good-smelling, quality cologne. If you don't have cologne or you don't want to wear it, just make sure you shower and deodorize just before the date. Use manly soaps and deodorants like Old Spice or Axe. (Old Spice is a favorite of the ladies)
- Sound. Make conversation and make sure she is comfortable being around you before you try to kiss her. Make a few jokes, although make sure not to ruin the mood by treating everything as a joke.
- Taste. When it comes to the kiss, make sure you don't have bad breath, because if you do, it will not be enjoyable for your girlfriend to have to taste it, too. Also, you might want to consider wearing lip balm. Don't wear anything with color, just something to give her something to enjoy tasting when she kisses you.
- Touch. Be sure that a kiss isn't the first time you touch your girlfriend. If you get the chance, hold her hand, hug her, snuggle her, or play with her hair. All of them can ensure that you get her in the mood. (When I say play with her hair, I don't mean giving her a new hairdo, nor petting her head. Run your fingers through her hair starting at the top and going down. And don't only touch her hair. Run your fingers along her head, neck, and back, just using her hair as an excuse to touch her).
- Sight. You have to look good. This means shave if you have to. (Unless stubble or other facial hair is your usual style. Be warned, though. stubble might irritate your girlfriend during a kiss). Also, here are some tips for casual dress: Aéropostale and Abercrombie & Fitch are always good brand-name choices for shirts and jackets, although they're not necessary. Also, wear good looking pants. If it's summer, wear shorts. (Make sure they at least go down to your knees! No girl likes looking and seeing guys in short-shorts.) If it's winter, wear some jeans. (Once again, make sure they're not too short. Ankles aren't fun too look at, either).
- 6Go for it! To begin, eye contact is a must. If she is not already facing you, get her attention by playing with her hair or something. If she doesn't look up at you, then use one of your hands to hold her face and turn it towards you. Then, start to lean in. Look into her eyes and once she looks into yours, glance down at her lips to let her know what is coming. If she doesn't stop you now, she doesn't plan on it, so be confident, but, go slowly!! Don't try to rush in and plant a sneak-attack on her. While you get closer, gauge her reaction. See if she is leaning in too, or closing her eyes. Then, slowly close your eyes and part your lips slightly. If you're not already holding her, reach out gently and put your hand on the back of her neck or on her face.
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