How to impress your desi girl friend on your first date ?
Here
is a list for the boys. There is a saying that “you never get a second
chance to make a good first impression.” With that in mind, it is vital
to be fully prepared to make a great impression on each date you go on.
Conversation
Do
not focus on yourself during the evening - ask your date questions
about herself (this works in all social situations). Listen to the
replies too and don’t just look for an opening to start discussing
yourself. Do not talk about your job for more than a few minutes - while
our own work is a fascinating subject for us, it is seldom fascinating
for someone else. Be sure to compliment your date - but don’t go
overboard - you will seem desperate.
Do not ever talk about dates you have had with other people or your ex-girlfriends.
Timing
Don’t
let your date last too long. Think of it like a good meal - you should
finish your plate feeling like you want just a little more. This is the
best time to finish a date. This also means that you should not plan for
the date to be too far from home otherwise the travel can ruin things.
Gifts
It
can be a very nice idea to give your date a small gift on the first
date. Don’t go crazy on something expensive - just a nice little token
like a single rose is fine. Keep in mind where you are going and how you
plan to get there so your date does not end up being lumbered with
something that she has to carry around all night. Oh - and don’t pick
the rose from your dates garden - buy one.
Conclusion
If
you enjoyed your time with your date and would like to see her again,
call her and tell her so. Don’t wait too long (and definitely don’t play
hard to get). Be completely honest. Having said that, if you had an
awful time, you should still be honest (though not brutal). There is no
point in leading someone on - it will end up badly for both of you.
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